the one hand vs. the other hand
The following might also be an interesting topic for my anthro final paper. (Oh god, I gotta choose a topic and send an outline to my prof before the week is out.)
The Sociological Images blog recently posted about the relativity of feminist liberation that touches on some of the problems with how feminism is discussed and articulated. The post is specifically about women-only taxi services that have begun popping up in Dubai, Mexico, Moscow, and, weirdly, the UK. In Manila, the MRT (our El/subway) has a women-only train car. I heard (...but can't find online confirmation) that it was women passengers themselves who requested this service because they kept getting groped on the train, especially during rush hour.
On the one hand, the pro-womanness of such a service is superficial. It's still demeaning, and it reinforces gender binaries and perpetuates an unjust system. Well, yes, ideally we would be living in a world where you don't need a women-only taxi service, but on the other hand I'm hesitant to sacrifice the security of these women for the sake of ideology. Just like you can't juxtapose one country's democracy wholesale on another country's, you can't juxtapose one country's feminism wholesale either. It has to grow organically from within (and also a little bit without). But to go back to the one hand, is more segregation really the way to promote this?
The problem with these services is that they're end-of-the-pipe solutions. They treat the symptoms of misogyny instead of the causes. They send a message to the men that they can continue to act like misogynists because we can always remove ourselves from the situation and it's our fault if we don't. But on the OTHER hand, sometimes when people talk about bringing some good ol' women's lib from countries where it's more commonplace to countries where it's less commonplace, it reminds me of the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality of economic conservatism: "You don't need special treatment, you just need to be strong!" That's all well and good, but the bootstraps of women in, say, the USA are already pretty high up compared to the bootstraps of women in the Philippines. And these boots, they smell like White Woman's Burden. Equality among women != sameness among women.
I think women should be wary of insisting on solidarity based on what we are not i.e. men. We're not just not-men. However, sometimes the rhetoric of being not-men overpowers the diversity of women's situations around the world, reducing women in quote unquote less liberated countries to the subaltern of the subaltern. And yeah, that's one of the flaws of the women-only taxi service, in that it is totally based on being not-men. If the way women protect themselves in other countries is disagreeable to us, should we take their protection away because it's bad for their feminist agenda? For WHOSE feminist agenda? Can you use 'unfeminist' means like these taxis to further feminism? Or is that too much like fighting for peace and fucking for virginity?
And, I dunno, what if the woman trying to hail a women-only taxi is escorting her ailing grandfather or something?
The Huffington Post offers a stronger stance on why these women-only taxis are questionable indeed. Interestingly, the HuffPost article was written by a man, whereas the Sociological Images post was written by a woman. I have my reservations about these taxis, but I also have my reservations about dismissing the idea outright. At the very least, it provides a safe space. It reminds me of - and I wish I have the link - how some people were trying to make an organization/support group for Hispanic gays, and a non-Hispanic gay was like, "But what for? We're ALL gay!" But what he was really saying is "We're ALL not straight", which isn't the same thing.
The Sociological Images blog recently posted about the relativity of feminist liberation that touches on some of the problems with how feminism is discussed and articulated. The post is specifically about women-only taxi services that have begun popping up in Dubai, Mexico, Moscow, and, weirdly, the UK. In Manila, the MRT (our El/subway) has a women-only train car. I heard (...but can't find online confirmation) that it was women passengers themselves who requested this service because they kept getting groped on the train, especially during rush hour.
On the one hand, the pro-womanness of such a service is superficial. It's still demeaning, and it reinforces gender binaries and perpetuates an unjust system. Well, yes, ideally we would be living in a world where you don't need a women-only taxi service, but on the other hand I'm hesitant to sacrifice the security of these women for the sake of ideology. Just like you can't juxtapose one country's democracy wholesale on another country's, you can't juxtapose one country's feminism wholesale either. It has to grow organically from within (and also a little bit without). But to go back to the one hand, is more segregation really the way to promote this?
The problem with these services is that they're end-of-the-pipe solutions. They treat the symptoms of misogyny instead of the causes. They send a message to the men that they can continue to act like misogynists because we can always remove ourselves from the situation and it's our fault if we don't. But on the OTHER hand, sometimes when people talk about bringing some good ol' women's lib from countries where it's more commonplace to countries where it's less commonplace, it reminds me of the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality of economic conservatism: "You don't need special treatment, you just need to be strong!" That's all well and good, but the bootstraps of women in, say, the USA are already pretty high up compared to the bootstraps of women in the Philippines. And these boots, they smell like White Woman's Burden. Equality among women != sameness among women.
I think women should be wary of insisting on solidarity based on what we are not i.e. men. We're not just not-men. However, sometimes the rhetoric of being not-men overpowers the diversity of women's situations around the world, reducing women in quote unquote less liberated countries to the subaltern of the subaltern. And yeah, that's one of the flaws of the women-only taxi service, in that it is totally based on being not-men. If the way women protect themselves in other countries is disagreeable to us, should we take their protection away because it's bad for their feminist agenda? For WHOSE feminist agenda? Can you use 'unfeminist' means like these taxis to further feminism? Or is that too much like fighting for peace and fucking for virginity?
And, I dunno, what if the woman trying to hail a women-only taxi is escorting her ailing grandfather or something?
The Huffington Post offers a stronger stance on why these women-only taxis are questionable indeed. Interestingly, the HuffPost article was written by a man, whereas the Sociological Images post was written by a woman. I have my reservations about these taxis, but I also have my reservations about dismissing the idea outright. At the very least, it provides a safe space. It reminds me of - and I wish I have the link - how some people were trying to make an organization/support group for Hispanic gays, and a non-Hispanic gay was like, "But what for? We're ALL gay!" But what he was really saying is "We're ALL not straight", which isn't the same thing.
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That seems to be missing often on discussions like these on whether women-only things are sexist or not. Sure, maybe they do reinforce gender binary and whatnot - but sometimes in severe situations, women need a safespace. In the meantime, now that we've got a safespace, instead of worrying that it's a bad thing, let's start focusing on what we can do to eliminate the need for a safespace in the first place. Like, let the pink taxis carry on (if there's a niche, the market will fill it) and instead of feeling insulted by them, why not focus on education campaigns towards men to lessen the need for that particular niche?
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In situations like in Dubai, you need a stopgap, short-term solution. But that can't be the end of the solution -- you need to address the long-term issue.
The problem with education and cultural change is that they both take time for any effects to appear. Safe spaces give you that time.
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I think two years ago, I'd have thought the women's taxis are a sort of demeaning concept. Now, after watching my god-daughter's issues of finding a safe and dependable way to get to work at 3am and dealing with several male taxi drivers, I really wish we had girl-taxis in Dallas.
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Also, I would love it if you could either cross-post or link this to intranationalities because its something relevant to our interests!
(HP/Leverage snippet eaten by harddrive! Will return once computer gets restored!)
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Alas our computer problems! Good luck with yours.
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I really like your breakdown of the issue. I saw both articles, and you have articulated a lot of the thoughts I had about them.
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There's also a, hrrrm, very difficult ad poster campaign all over London at the moment, by Cabwise, the government cab licencing authority, warning women not to take unlicenced cabs. Basically it's panicky text and a close up of a woman's face as she's being attacked (if anyone googles it, use caution as it could well be triggery, and there's a Cabwise video ad from a couple of years ago, which also comes up on google, which is nigh-unwatchable for the same reasons). I can see what it's trying to do, but it's very much a "don't do this or you might be raped" ad, placing the onus on women to avoid particular situatuons, when I've yet to see a Cabwise "guys - don't rape women" ad.
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I've yet to see a Cabwise "guys - don't rape women" ad.
Yeah, that's the thing. A lot of the education campaigns are aimed at woman with a 'grab your agency!' message, but what about the education campaign targeting men?
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(Here via intranationalities, btw, and thank you for the links/discussion.)
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I can't deny the very real benefits women reap from such services - I'm referring specifically to women-only seats on Indian buses and trains, because that's all I can claim have experienced firsthand - but what you said is absolutely true. Very often, in fact, these so-called 'women friendly services' are just a means of not addressing the larger issues (which, if raised, bring about bewildered 'but we gave you the damn seats, what *else* do you women want?' responses).